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Valley of the Rogue's avatar

Abortion really is going to be the issue that will win the election for Democrats and Biden. It isn't the economy, and it isn't Gaza, which few care about outside some people from a few select college campuses. It is abortion and reproductive rights. I no longer listen to or read anything about "gender identity" because I know having studied the far right for over fifty years, that it is merely a wedge issue for them. They deliberately use feminist talking points as a division tool. They don't care about it and want to roll back ALL of women's gains of the past 100 years. Women are being manipulated into voting against their best interests. The ONLY option women have to preserve what rights they still have in the US is to vote Democratic. Period. Julie Bindel and other overseas observers need to stay in their lane. They are not helping US women by saying the far right is better. The right is way worse and make no bones about their hostility over women being in the public sphere at all.

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To get anywhere, including rectifying the notably disproportionately low number of male students attending post-secondary or higher education institutions, males need to have the same general mainstream media support as females have had for decades, and still very much do.

Males have observed thus known that they aren’t taken seriously by the media. If anything, the media is critical toward their cause.

When I communicated with a metro-daily newspaper editor about boys' school-grade averages considerably falling yet basically being ignored by provincial governments and sociology/education academia — and generally dismissed by the mainstream news-media — she made a sarcastic reference to the males as “the poor little boys”.

Her attitude clearly rang with incredulity, that males can’t really be a social/societal victim.

In his book The Highly Sensitive Man, author and psychologist/psychotherapist Tom Falkenstein writes that there are “numerous psychological studies over the last forty years that tell us that, despite huge social change, the stereotypical image of the ‘strong man’ is still firmly with us at all ages, in all ethnic groups, and among all socio-economic backgrounds. …

“One also gets the impression from these articles that we need to keep any genuine sympathy for these ‘poor men’ in check: the patriarchy is still just too dominant to allow ourselves that luxury.”

I’ve been consuming mainstream news for 35 years, and I tend to notice things that most others would not notice; or maybe they notice but feel like they are supposed not to notice and behave accordingly. One thing is the thick social-issue politics, or pejoratively referred to as “woke”, within the news-media, especially Canadian outlets like the CBC, Globe and Mail and Toronto Star.

When it comes to male recipients, there’s injustice that those news-media seem to consider, cover or ignore as though such gender injustice is ideologically thus politically acceptable.

Falkenstein also writes: “Women have thus been understood as the nondominant group, which deviated from the norm, and they have been examined and understood from this perspective. One of the countless problems of this approach is that the experiences and specific challenges of the ‘dominant group,’ in this case men, have remained hidden. ...

“You only have to open a magazine or newspaper, turn on your TV, or open your browser to discover an ever-growing interest in stories about being a father, being a man, or how to balance a career with a family. Many of these articles have started talking about an apparent ‘crisis of masculinity’.

"The headlines for these articles attempt to address male identity, but often fall into the trap of sounding ironic and sometimes even sarcastic and critical. They all seem to agree to some extent that there is a crisis.

“But reading these articles one gets the impression that no one really knows how to even start dealing with the problem, let alone what a solution to it might look like. …”

In summation: Suck it all up, guys!

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